Sunday, 23 March 2014

Arrival in Delhi

We arrived in Delhi for the final part of our visit, to a much grander city, a little more formal than Kolkata, less beeping, and on the surface, a lot cleaner.

The walkways were wider, the roads better, and the houses quite amazing, around the diplomatic quarter.  You can tell that the money moved from Kolkata to Delhi,  just in the buildings and general feel.

The people in Kolkata (called the city of Joy) seemed to be quite opinionated about the people of Delhi, with the view they were rude and argumentative, so we were not so looking forward to this part of the trip!

The airport as usual was amazing, just over 6 months old, and put anything we have in the UK to shame.  Luggage was off in minutes and our transport was waiting for us as we exited the main area.


The hotel was great - usual Oberoi luxury and taken straight to our room to check in and given a Delhi welcome (not quite sure what that is but it involves marigold flowers, a touch of red paint and some nice iced tea water)

The reception area

Our view over the 18 hole golf course


The swimming pool from our room.

So far so good, all settled in and an early night for a busy week!

Other family places in Kolkata

With Cedric helping us we were able to find most of the places we wanted to.  From the place that Heathers father Dennis was born to where they got married, everything was still standing, but just a little more worn, as much everything in India is!

This is the church where Heathers father was baptised:




Then we made our way to the next Church which is where they were married:







The final place was the graveyard where Heathers Great Grandfather was buried - Travis Charles, which Cedric helped us find.



This plot was an unmarked grave, for Kitty Billion, who would have been a great Aunt of Heathers, sadly she died from a fall from a balcony at her nursing quarters.  Despite reports of someone seeing her being pushed, no one was ever charged with her death at 35 years old.

The Graveyards are great affairs in Kolkata, and there are resident gardeners that live on site, and for around 50p a month will keep an area clear and look after the grave.  This role is handed down from father to son, so they have a great knowledge of who is buried where.  We paid the Maali (Gardener) for helping us, and soon discovered the system of who gets what.  We also then had to pay the guy that looks after the cemetery as he was the boss.







Sunday, 16 March 2014

Bangalore - The Hotel!

The Oberoi Bangalore hotel was one of the best we have ever stayed in - not particularly for one thing, but for lots of things.  The service was exemplary and the staff as friendly as you can get.


Me and my Margarita!



The reception area - on the left is the scanner they use for everyone that enters the hotel.


The View from our room



These are the front gardens, you can see the big gates which are guarded and the bollards that stop anyone getting in that shouldn't - although that didn't extend to me for some reason..






Walking in Bangalore - Victoria Park

We decided to get out from the hotel, although the staff were not very keen on it, asking us if we wanted a Hotel Car! Looking at the map we were walking distance to the Victoria Park, although estimates about how long it would take seemed to vary quite a lot from 10 minutes to 30 minutes.

The first thing we get when we leave the hotel 'is a very good price' from everyone that owned a Tut Tut or Taxi.

The Park is huge, guarded by a statue of Queen Victoria, and like everything around here, was probably a great place to visit 40 years ago, now it is a pleasant walk but there is a lot of rubbish laying around and a little untidy for a major city park.

Within 5 minutes someone was walking just behind us, and eventually caught up asking where we are from, to which I replied, he then chatted a few more minutes before asking where we are going. I said Victoria Park (subsequently I was told never say exactly where you are going, always lie a bit).  He mentioned there was a demonstration on this morning and I should 'go right' and then use a parallel road to avoid it.  Well he can be as nice as he likes but there was no way we were going to change our route, so in the end he left us behind waving his hands like we were mad.

This actually happened again another couple streets up, which was all a bit strange, but I thought if we see a demonstration then we will just avoid it and turnaround.



As you can see it was all bit barren and dry, and empty, so we decided it was not for us to sit and relax. We walked out of the park just as a Rickshaw was emptying, and jumped in.

They call these Auto Rickshaws and they are everywhere - we got this chap to give us a lift back from the park to the hotel.  How much? Whatever sir wants to give me! as he drops us outside the 5* Oberoi. May have been better off getting dropped off further down the road. 






Heathers comments

What an amazing trip we have had travelling around India. Ok not all the experiences I would like to repeat again but on the whole we just love India. The people we have met along the way are so very gentle and willing to please. I wish we had come to India years ago. Thank you to my Martyn for pulling this trip together what an adventure we have had with our James joining us from Australia in Calcutta.

Martyn had done so much research into our family tree beforehand to see all the puzzles coming together has been an emotional yet proud journey. 

My parents,Victoria and James Grandparents were Anglo Indian/Euro Asian and what a diverse mix we have running through our veins. From Portugese,French,Scottish/Burmese and Indonesian. I would love to say Indian too but this we do not seem able to trace.

We met my 2nd cousin Cedric in Calcutta and it's been a pleasure. He is in his 80's yet he is still sprightly and took us around to all the places that had been of significance to my parents. My parents were privalidged and lived in India through the British Rule. The homes and lifestyle they had they wanted for nothing. My father had great foresight to come over to the UK when they did. Can you imagine my mother came over in the 1940's with two babies on her own with my Grandmother while my father sent money from his job in Calcutta.

It must have been so very scary for her and what they achieved with sheer hard work, we as their children/grandchildren and great grandchildren will always be so grateful. I just wished I could say to them both now thanks so much Dad and Mum. 

I think India is very spiritual and it makes you reflect by it's humbling experience.
Would I return? Absolutely yes. 

My advice would be don't believe everything you read, experience India for yourself and make up your own mind.

Thank you so much to my wonderful husband Martyn otherwise this would not have been possible.



Friday, 14 March 2014

Things left behind...

Only in India - an article in the local paper here about a couple that arrived into the airport stopped for a coffee, and went home leaving their baby at the airport. They didn't discover this until they actually got home 2 hours later. Would lived to have been a fly on the wall when that conversation took place!

Tuesday, 11 March 2014

Kurseong - the school

Well this was to be the highlight of the trip and we really didn't know what to expect -we had phoned and previous emails had gone unanswered,  but the last email asked us to come after 14.00 but it was 11.00 and we wanted to get on if we could.
As it happened we actually stopped at a government run hotel to ask directions and it was opposite the entrance to the school which was perched high above us. 



We had a quick coffee,  which was very nice,  grabbed our things and started the walk up what turned or to be a long walk, and at 4800 feet we got a little more breathless than we should.
It's difficult to explain the air,  it feels clean and fresh and even though it was quite warm, there was a chill to it that was a bit like a blast from an air conditioned room when you enter a chilled room.
We got some pictures of the sports area as we walked up,  and caught up with a lady carrying a small urn of milk. Heather got chatting and she stayed with us for the walk up talking away.

The first impressions are of a school that has probably changed very little since it was built in 1850.  Perched high it looks out at spectacular views of the himalayas,  and is painted a very light blue with small diamond shaped glass windows.  The are number of peaks to the house and it reminds of an old Victorian building that would have probably been replaced many years ago in the UK and something of a bygone age.

We were lead through to the office which was on the first floor,  and a lady came out smiling called Jean, and shook our hands. It turns out her brother lives in Glasgow and her father was British,  so she spoke excellent English and she called sister Rose for us.

The sister was lovely and looked like a typical Nun, around 5ft tall and slightly rounded with a beaming smile and bright sharp eyes.

We dug out the pictures and certificates we had and everyone gathered around to look,  and were fascinated by what we had and that we had come so far to visit.
The sister took us on a tour of the school and showed the places where Yvonne would have slept,  studied and played the piano.  

She explained a typical day was wake up at 5.30 to 6.00 and study until 7.30 for breakfast.  At 8.30 after washing and changing lessons would start and last all day until lunch at 11.50 for washing,  then start eating around 13.00 after a session in the playground. Lessons resumed at 14.00 until 17.30 for another break, then final studies from around 7 m to 9pm.

That was 6 days a week!  Some weekends there were competitive sports,  but the girls were never allowed outside the school premises.  Bearing in mind the school term was 9 months and Yvonne boarded there from 3 years to 18 years old it must have been a huge part of their life.
It was a lovely tour round the school and we saw the dormitories she each of the age groups stayed.  The 3 to 5 year old stayed in cots,  which were stacked side by side,  each with a little set of draws.  

In the corner was a small covered area where one of the sisters would sleep to keep an eye on things. The area was empty as they are no longer taking new boarders on.
The second area was for the 6 to 11 year olds and it was row after row of beds all covered in a blue blanket,  with a set of draws and a chair. The gap between the beds was about 2 ft and so it must very cosy and I guess you all needed to get along!
Next to each area was a little pile of clothes and a towel.  The sister explained that after the children changed for school their clothes were cleaned and returned to their beds.

The final area was for the seniors,  and as before rows of beds with a similar Blue blanket,  but more of the beds had small stuffed animals such as teddy bears on them.  Also there was a little more room.

There is no double glazing or heating,  and it was cool rather than warm,  but in this area of India they can have snow so I can guess some days it must have been freezing and in the summer months too hot!
There is a number of strip lights,  but not much else,  and given there is no wifi I imagine there is very little use for technology here.
After this we were shown round the classrooms and the desks were Victorian and the chairs solid,  with around 30 to a classroom.  There was a chalk board and books and that was pretty much it.  Compared to modern Western classrooms it was very old fashioned but also had a charm about it,  like a forgotten corner somewhere,  but turning out very bright and successful students.

I did get a glance at the computer room,  with around 20 monitors all covered up,  but I am not sure how much use they got,  as we were whisked on for the next part of our journey.
The sister explained that the school was no longer taking boarders and that by 2017 there would only be day students.
We then stopped in a parlour where we were made tea and Jean came struggling through with a pile of photo albums to show us. Out came the hot gram and biscuits and they started going through the pictures trying to identify Yvonne.


Eventually we found what we think was an early picture which I copied and Jean came back with the students register all written nearly by hand,  and showed us the entry for Yvonne.
Interestingly Yvonne was the only student with a 'very good' final remark.




So we had finished our visit,  we offered a contribution to the school (which I thought was ok,  but the sister thanked us for our 'small' contribution) and we made or way out.
We took some final pictures,  Heather got a hug and we made our farewells. One thing we didn't realise was the number of monkeys,  which were watching us with amusement.


What a day, more than we could have wished for and beyond anything that we hoped when we set out.